First of all, thank you so much for the time that you’ve spent counseling my husband. Although it’s been difficult for him, I have noticed that he’s trying to actually think things through at a deeper level. Secondly, I have actually done something WAY out of my comfort zone and didn’t collapse, die or worse I went to a work party with one of the board members of the club, his wife and a couple that they introduced us to over the weekend! Oh! Did I mention that I didn’t go to the party with my husband? I went BY MY SELF!!! AND, I had a really nice time. AND, I spent FOUR HOURS with them…AND there was no alcohol! Amazing LOL